A Relationship Is Not A Destination

A Relationship Is Not A Destination

Oh, Valentines. Oh, my sweet Valentines. It’s that time of year where I feel all sick and rubbish at the prospect of every smug married I know declaring their love all over Facebook. Boasting of the lovely gifts and flowers they’ve received and the 2for1 carvery...
It’s Like Fast Food Romance

It’s Like Fast Food Romance

Forgive me, reader, for I have sinned. I left you hanging mid dating disaster tales and then, well, ummmmmm, sort of got rather busy and didn’t prioritise updating you. Whoops. Sorry. The last time we spoke I’d given up on the anxiety-inducing dating apps and really...
Dear Anxiety. I Need To Break Up With You

Dear Anxiety. I Need To Break Up With You

Anxiety, the problem is this. It’s not me. It’s you! This long-suffering relationship we’ve been in has to come to an end. I need you to pack your bags and leave now, please. I’ve talked before about my own anxiety issues but I’ve never really laid it out quite...
Is Friends With Benefits OK?

Is Friends With Benefits OK?

During my recent adventures into the world of online dating, it’s amazed me how many people really don’t know what it is they are looking for from those they are attempting to get a date with.   Online dating is, shall we say, a murky world. If you’ve spent any...