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Some days I write about life and loves, other days it’s all about dating, parenting work-life and whatever random rants are swirling around in my head
10 Important First Date Questions
First dates can be stressful. And coming up with first date questions without sounding like you are interrogating your date can be tough
ABOUT ME
Samantha Martin
Yes, that's me! The one with the Mickey Ears
Hi, I'm Samantha and welcome to my blog. I don't just talk about work stuff. From food to fashion, relationships, random stuff and grown-up life in general. And obviously being fab over 40......
How To Work From Home
Work from home has become the new normal for many of us. But how do you work from home without going crazy?
25 Lessons About Life I Wish I’d Known Before 40
There is great power in the statement “older and wiser”. As we get older we learn lessons about life we wish we’d known when we were younger.
Dating Yourself: 10 Things To Do On Your Own For A Solo Date
You don’t have to be single to enjoy dating yourself. Taking yourself off for a solo date can be the perfect way to relax and recharge
Ghosting: Why It Is So Wrong And Cowardly
Ghosting, the act of cutting communication for no reason, is wrong and cowardly. Why do people do it and is there ever a good reason for it?
Perfect Mother’s Day Gifts
Choosing the perfect Mother’s Day gift can be really hard work. So I’ve narrowed down the choices to help you out this Mother’s Day
Situationship: 10 Signs You May Be In One
A situationship is that confusing part between dating and a committed relationship. But you may not realise that you’re in a situationship
Shop With Me March 2022
Shop with me in March 2022 to find what great buys and fabulous bargains I find as a self-confessed shopaholic
What Is Normal?
We should be making it normal to celebrate and support all women every single day of the year. Always. Not just for International Women’s Day
Midlife Crisis Or A New Direction?
The problem with making life changes when you hit a certain age, is that people often just think you’re having a midlife crisis
Love Bombing: Lessons From The Tinder Swindler
Love Bombing: Boy and girl both swipe right and she is immediately swept off her feet by this too good to be true guy. Almost too perfect.
Are You Feeling Stuck?
Are you feeling stuck or just stuck in the same life and same routine we’ve been churning out for years? It is a mindset that can change
The Friend Zone Is A Bad Place To Be Put
The friend zone is an odd little space that can be used to disguise many a dating sin. It’s also a very unfriendly place.
Giving Up Alcohol For Dry January
Giving up alcohol for Dry January is easier than you think, you just have to get yourself into the right frame of mind and stay positive
Super Sales For Savvy Shoppers
If you didn’t already know it’s Black Friday and I’ve been on the hunt for the best super sales for the more savvy shoppers
Get Back With Your Ex: A Good Idea Or Not?
When deciding if you should get back with your ex, a good place to start is looking at the reasons why you broke up in the first place
Are You Ready To Start Dating Again?
Dating is scary enough at the best of times. But now as we emerge from lockdown the thoughts of meeting new people is starting to crop up
The Misconceptions Of Female Empowerment
A ‘Girl Power’ selfie is a far cry from real female empowerment. You don’t have to be anti-men to embrace female empowerment or be a feminist
Dating Someone That Just Got Out Of A Relationship
Dating someone that just got out of a relationship requires a lot of patience and understanding. Here are a few tips to help you when dating
A Relationship Is Not A Destination
If being in a relationship is your final destination goal then Valentines is probably your thing. So why not express your love every day?
2021: Changes – Turn And Face The Strange
Whilst giving myself a talking to, I realised that between life events and world events I’d completely lost my mojo. I need changes!
Please Do Not Virtue Signal About Mental Health Awareness Week
Mental health is a lifelong thing. It’s not just for Christmas or an awareness week in May. It’s like a puppy. A pain in the arse but you’re stuck with it
Lockdown: What Are You Really Missing?
Sex, drugs and rock n roll or just a KFC. Who and what are you really missing during lockdown? Or who and what are you not missing at all?
SURVIVING LOCKDOWN: Sex, Snacks and Social Distancing
Surviving lockdown is tough for everyone but it doesn’t mean to say it also has to be a horrible time. It can be fun, productive or even just relaxing
It’s Like Fast Food Romance
Forgive me, I left you hanging mid dating disaster tales and now I feel like dating is more like ordering pizza for fast food romance!
Dear Anxiety. I Need To Break Up With You
Dating with anxiety is a nightmare. Some make it their life ambition to be somebody else’s trigger. I told my anxiety we need to break up
Friends With Benefits – Is It ok?
In the world of dating many people don’t know what it is they want from all their swiping. Do they want a relationship or just a friend with benefits?
A Million Reasons Your Tinder Date Isn’t Genuine
I can safely say I will never be online dating again. It’s awful. Soul destroying. Many guys I’ve encountered were not genuine
Sorry Really Is The Hardest Word
Lads, we need to talk about your inability to say sorry and the absolute dick move that it is. It really isn’t that difficult and goes a long way
Swipe Right! Think I’ll Swipe Left Thanks
I’ve never used a dating app in my life until this week and quite honestly I think I’ll just swipe left and stay single because you know it won’t end well
To All The Boys I’ve Loved Before
When it comes to ex boys I’ve loved before there are the good, the bad and then there’s the one that got away. It’s time I told others what they mean to me
I’m The World’s Worst Blogger / The One In Which I Nearly Died
I thought I’d make this Christmas truly memorable and nearly die. Yep I actually nearly died. Talk about dramatic! Oh and I made a few decisions as well
How To Get Over Yourself
At some point on your business journey, you are going to come to the realisation that it’s not all about you and have to have to get over yourself
Stop Trying To Pursue Your One Passion
Do you have to have just one passion in life to discover what your purpose is? What if you decide you don’t like that passion anymore?
Hotel Football Summer Football Camp
The first Summer Football Camp kicks off at Hotel Football this summer and I went to take a look at what the kids would be getting up to
Don’t Let Other People’s Jealousy Hold You Back
Not everyone will be happy with your success. Some people will be overcome with jealousy. Don’t let other people’s jealousy hold you back!
I Tried To Be A Morning Person So You Don’t Have To
I have never been a morning person and after this ridiculous attempt at being a morning person, I doubt I ever will be. But do you have to get up at 5am to be a success?